Success
seemed really simple in elementary school. You get an A on your math
test—success! You win a game of foursquare—success! You play a solo in your
band concert and don’t miss a note—success!
Adult
life is much more complex than acing a spelling test every Friday. As a
result, each person’s definition of success is unique.
I
wanted to know how others define success, so I turned to my peer groups on
LinkedIn and asked them just that. I started by sharing my definition of
success in order to open up the dialogue.
What was the result? I learned that many of us hold similar ideas about success. In fact, I noticed four trends in people’s definitions of success: relationships, purpose, contentment, and the importance of striving for goals. Take a look at the wonderful responses below, and you will see what I mean.
What
is Your Definition of Success?
1. Success is About Relationships
David Morlah
Teamwork & Leadership
Guy/Baseball Scribe
Success is
making a lot of money and having power and control over other people. Okay,
just kidding.
I believe success is all about relationships with people. It’s maintaining
long term friendships and being at peace with all in your family.
It’s about
forgiving those who may have done you wrong, and harboring no bitterness or
deep regrets. If you are loved, and if you love others, you are successful.
Success is
making a lot of money and having power and control over other people. Okay,
just kidding.
I believe success is all about relationships with people. It’s maintaining
long term friendships and being at peace with all in your family.
It’s about
forgiving those who may have done you wrong, and harboring no bitterness or
deep regrets. If you are loved, and if you love others, you are successful.
Ed Gilbert
Vice President Business
Integration at Truven Health Analytics
Success is
being able to look back in life and note the influence and guidance that you
have provided to others. It is the long list of people that seek out my advice
about career, business, or personal matters. That is when you know you are
successful.
Success is
being able to look back in life and note the influence and guidance that you
have provided to others. It is the long list of people that seek out my advice
about career, business, or personal matters. That is when you know you are
successful.
2. Success is Finding Peace and Contentment in Life
Allan Griff
Independent Plastics
Engineer/Anthropologist
David’s
kidding shouldn’t be dismissed so easily. Although its unPC among us levies to
go after money and power to make more, we are surrounded and often dependent on
people who have those values, and need to understand how they tick, and not
just toss their values into the trashosphere. I want to free myself from such
goals as “success” and prefer the idea(I) of contentment. Good health (no
extremes) and good genes help. Please remember that some of us (not just us
engineers) don’t thrive on personal relationships, but somehow muddle through
them and find contentment in believing what we see (science) and not seeing
what we believe, observing from the outside, and thinking on the inside. Yes, I
want to earn enough money to free me from economic anxiety, and I want power,
but over myself and not others. Anne, thank you for asking us this question. I
hope lots more of us are thinking about it even if they don’t post..
Rhyz
Buac
Vice President – Finance and Operations at Alenter Resort Hotels
Corporation
When you are
happy and satisfied/contented of what you have then you are already successful
David’s
kidding shouldn’t be dismissed so easily. Although its unPC among us levies to
go after money and power to make more, we are surrounded and often dependent on
people who have those values, and need to understand how they tick, and not
just toss their values into the trashosphere. I want to free myself from such
goals as “success” and prefer the idea(I) of contentment. Good health (no
extremes) and good genes help. Please remember that some of us (not just us
engineers) don’t thrive on personal relationships, but somehow muddle through
them and find contentment in believing what we see (science) and not seeing
what we believe, observing from the outside, and thinking on the inside. Yes, I
want to earn enough money to free me from economic anxiety, and I want power,
but over myself and not others. Anne, thank you for asking us this question. I
hope lots more of us are thinking about it even if they don’t post..
Rhyz
Buac
Vice President – Finance and Operations at Alenter Resort Hotels
Corporation
When you are
happy and satisfied/contented of what you have then you are already successful
Kathy Barany, PHR
Principal, Strategic Management
Solutions
Love David’s
definition…all except that first line that had us going! To me, success is
personal and professional. personally, it is being healthy and happy; healthy
being physical and emotional, and the happy part is all that David said.
Professionally, it is being happy with what we do and having a healthy attitude
towards mistakes along the way; we learn from them.
Love David’s
definition…all except that first line that had us going! To me, success is
personal and professional. personally, it is being healthy and happy; healthy
being physical and emotional, and the happy part is all that David said.
Professionally, it is being happy with what we do and having a healthy attitude
towards mistakes along the way; we learn from them.
3.
Success Starts With Identifying Your Purpose
Ruth
M.Schimel
at Career & Life Management Consultant
I don’t
believe there’s one definition of success because each of us has unique
interests, goals, and needs. Once there is a sense of purpose, defining success
becomes more accessible, varying with time and experience.
Ruth
M.Schimel
at Career & Life Management Consultant
I don’t
believe there’s one definition of success because each of us has unique
interests, goals, and needs. Once there is a sense of purpose, defining success
becomes more accessible, varying with time and experience.
Ruth Schimel, Ph.D.
Author of “Step Into the
Success You Want: Sparking Your Powers”
Arthur Cilley
Independent Business Advisor
I like your
definition. My definition also includes some creative/artistic expression and
some spiritual involvement.
For 10 years or so
I did not do much with music, which had always been probably my favorite way to
find peace but also energy. I sang in an a cappella group in college and in
church choirs and community choruses after that. When I moved to Texas in the
late 90’s I stopped singing for various reasons. In the last two years I have
begun to sing again with a barbershop chorus and a quartet or two as well as an
excellent choral group associated with, but not part of, the church where I
used to belong. I find that I missed that chance to perform more than I
realized. It need not be singing, of course. Painting, crafts, dancing, acting,
public speaking or playing an instrument are all equally rewarding depending on
your talents.
Spiritual
satisfaction is perhaps harder to come by. I believe, however, that “success”
includes some philosophical reflection on why we are here. Without getting too
preachy, we could all benefit from some soul searching about our place and
purpose in the world. Many find that in a church or other religious
organization but meditation or a walk in the woods or volunteering at a youth
or senior center also provide insight.
Best wishes to
your readers for success however they define it.
I like your
definition. My definition also includes some creative/artistic expression and
some spiritual involvement.
For 10 years or so
I did not do much with music, which had always been probably my favorite way to
find peace but also energy. I sang in an a cappella group in college and in
church choirs and community choruses after that. When I moved to Texas in the
late 90’s I stopped singing for various reasons. In the last two years I have
begun to sing again with a barbershop chorus and a quartet or two as well as an
excellent choral group associated with, but not part of, the church where I
used to belong. I find that I missed that chance to perform more than I
realized. It need not be singing, of course. Painting, crafts, dancing, acting,
public speaking or playing an instrument are all equally rewarding depending on
your talents.
Spiritual
satisfaction is perhaps harder to come by. I believe, however, that “success”
includes some philosophical reflection on why we are here. Without getting too
preachy, we could all benefit from some soul searching about our place and
purpose in the world. Many find that in a church or other religious
organization but meditation or a walk in the woods or volunteering at a youth
or senior center also provide insight.
Best wishes to
your readers for success however they define it.
4. Success is a Process, Not a Specific Goal
Larry Smith
Business Development, The
Belt’s Corporation
Success
describes the fulfillment and peace of mind people acquire from nurturing and
developing their minds(perpetually learning), bodies(physical/emotional
wellness), and spirit(discovering maximal perspectives that yield lifelong and
immediate purposes). It requires developing, implementing, and refining three strategies
at once. Then the Magic happens…
Success
describes the fulfillment and peace of mind people acquire from nurturing and
developing their minds(perpetually learning), bodies(physical/emotional
wellness), and spirit(discovering maximal perspectives that yield lifelong and
immediate purposes). It requires developing, implementing, and refining three strategies
at once. Then the Magic happens…
Mark C. Miller
International (Latin American)
Financial Risk Management
I would say
that success is the process of identifying, and striving to reach, our own
aspirations…perhaps we can repeatedly halve the distance to meeting those
aspirations; in any case, the real success seems to come from striving for or
toward something that we find meaningful, not from a final result of actually
having arrived there.
Good luck to
all.
I would say
that success is the process of identifying, and striving to reach, our own
aspirations…perhaps we can repeatedly halve the distance to meeting those
aspirations; in any case, the real success seems to come from striving for or
toward something that we find meaningful, not from a final result of actually
having arrived there.
Good luck to
all.
Emilly Filloramo
Success & Happiness
Catalyst | Confidence Coach | Author | Speaker | Nutritionist
Success is
giving all that you’ve got, knowing that you did go outside of your comfort
zone, pushed through the obstacles, picked yourself up after failing and doing
it over and over again. All in the name of leaving this world a better place
than you have found it.
Success is
giving all that you’ve got, knowing that you did go outside of your comfort
zone, pushed through the obstacles, picked yourself up after failing and doing
it over and over again. All in the name of leaving this world a better place
than you have found it.
Karen Fox
Environmental Research/GIS
Analysis
Knowing that I
have the power to turn a potential disappointment into an opportunity for
gratitude.
Acknowledging
that, what I might have done better today, is something I can always strive for
again tomorrow. (No room for regrets)
Being there
for my friends and family, and allowing them to do the same for me.
(…and having
my mortgage paid off!!!)
Knowing that I
have the power to turn a potential disappointment into an opportunity for
gratitude.
Acknowledging
that, what I might have done better today, is something I can always strive for
again tomorrow. (No room for regrets)
Being there
for my friends and family, and allowing them to do the same for me.
(…and having
my mortgage paid off!!!)
Let’s
continue the dialogue.
As
I mentioned in my interview with Cornell
University, success to me is working with fully engaged clients,
giving back to my community in the form of teaching and mentorship, and living
my purpose. But what about you? How do you define success?
Let’s share experiences. Leave a comment below, send
me an email,
or find me on Twitter.